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Supernatural – Episode 9.07 – The Gripe Review

22 Nov 2013

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Writing a Gripe Review for a non-mythology episode is like writing a critique for a homemade movie. Sure there are flaws and continuity errors, but they are mostly small and negligible and get lost in the cozy nature of the movie’s good feels. Such errors also have no real effect on the show’s overall storyline since the episode’s plot is mostly self-contained. Add to it the heartfelt, nostalgic flashbacks of arguably one of the most popular characters on TV, from a time of his life that inspired many a fanfiction – and you see the futility of the practice.

I searched the web high and low, but aside from the Rougarou stumble, and Sam’s questionably young appearance, didn’t find any complaints. Bad Boys, it appears, isn’t the type of episode that generated argument among fans, only gooey thoughts about how cute Dean was as a kid and how sad a childhood he had.

That’s a lie. The episode also provoked discussions around its meanings and parallels. Many fans mentioned that both the flashback and the case of the week corresponded to elements in the main storyline. What those elements are has been the subject of a few debates. There were similar debates about how the episode portrayed John as Sam and Dean’s father, whether it was fair or an example of the show being too harsh on a father who sacrificed himself for his eldest son.


So this week, due to the nature of the 9.07 and the debates around it, the gripe review will be more of a discussion review, meaning I will offer major points of discussion that generated from this episode, and talk about different positions fans took with regards to them.

Discussion Topic #1: How did the present day story parallel Dean and Sam’s current story?

“Sometimes you’ve got to do what’s best for you, even if it’s gonna hurt the ones you love.”

Dean says this to the boy who is holding on so tightly to his mother’s memory her ghost can’t move on. The question that has risen from this line, captivated fans, and sparked debates among them depending on their reading of it, is who this parallels in the Sam and Dean storyline. Is it Sam, who tried to do what was best for him, i.e. dying permanently, even if it meant hurting Dean? Or is it Dean, an advice he should take himself by letting go of Sam and not worrying so much about him getting hurt because it comes at the cost of what is best for him? Personally I see both, but I’m sure there will be differences of opinion in the comments.


Discussion Topic #2: What did the flashback tell us about Dean’s life as Sam’s surrogate parent?

Sam: “Here I was thinking this was the worst part of your life. Turns out it was the best. Why did you ever leave?” 
Dean: “Never felt right.” 
Sam: “Really?”

Sam’s last comment echoes what many of us are thinking: Did it really not feel right to Dean to live away from John and Sam and do things he himself chose to do for once? Could Dean really not wait to get out of that place even though he achieved so much there and had tears in his eyes when he left? What did Dean mean by “It wasn’t me?”

Some say the end scene, where Dean misses out on the school dance with Robin but steels himself and shakes Sonny’s hand, shows how throughout the years, little by little, he has let go of his own wants and needs for the sake of his family. How after every incident, big or small, he put on a brave face and marched on, even though something inside him broke a little.

Others however cite his smile at seeing Sam in the back seat, playing with the toy plane. To them that smile is a sign that no matter how much Dean loses because of his duties as surrogate parent, he still finds happiness due to being with Sammy. That no matter how harsh, how painful, life treats him, it only takes a look at his little brother to make him smile. Not my personal opinion because Dean’s smile looked just a bit too sad in the end. But this viewpoint is supported by a number of fans.

The overall question here is what do #1 and #2 say about the brothers’ codependency?


Discussion Topic #3: Was John’s portrayal in the flashbacks fair?

There were big disputes on whether or not what John did in the episode was right. Both leaving Dean at the boys home and lying to Sam about it, and the end, when he didn’t let him go to the dance. Some think it was cruel and call it an exhibition of how much the show tries to vilify John. Others say it was reasonable within their lifestyle since lives could be at stake and the next hunt could not wait for a teenager to go to a dance.

Personal Gripe: This is me personally ranting about some of the major issues I have with Adam Glass’ writing. He has a talent for coming up with good stories that have their heart in the right place, but he pads them with too much backstory (did we really need to hear the old woman’s long tale about the old farmer that wasn’t even part of the plot?) and stopping a scene in the middle of the action for characters to deliver exposition (the mother’s ghost stayed away just long enough for Timmy to tell Sam and the others what happened to his mom.)

Praise: Dylan Everett gave a stellar performance as young Dean Winchester, in my opinion the best among all the actors who played young Dean. He had the right amount of cockiness and innocence about him, the same qualities that make Jensen’s Dean so appealing. I would love to see him in the role again if they decide to give us more Dean flashbacks in the future.

What do you think about these Discussion Points, Gripe and Praise? Sound off in the comments and let us know.

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22 comments:

  1. "Or is it Dean, an advice he should take himself by letting go of Sam and not worrying so much about him getting hurt because it comes at the cost of what is best for him?"
    I'm sorry, WHAT? Are you serious about this? Because from your sentence it seems like by not letting go of Sam Dean hurts himself, not his brother, which is total bullcrap, because the one taking the big hits because of Dean's codependency? Sam. (Don't get me wrong: I'm not saying Dean's not suffering because of it too, I'm just saying that it's Sam's body hosting Ezekiel, not Dean's.)
    You do remember season 6 (and 7) when, thanks to Dean, Sam was a mess of a human being, right? And you do recall that Sam is the one possessed by a freaking angel, yeah? I sure hope you do.

    :"Is it Sam, who tried to do what was best for him, i.e. dying permanently, even if it meant hurting Dean?"

    Yeah, that's right. Let's now blame Sam for trying to end the cycle of tragedy and suffering caused by unhealthy codependent relationship, like we did back when season 8 premiered. Jesus Christ. Why do people always have to give Sam sh*t for his mistakes, meanwhile forgiving Dean in an instant?




    I don't know whether you are a Dean-girl or anything but the way you talk about Samuel here is quite disturbing. Otherwise, an OK article, but this whole "justifying and pitying Dean" tone of it is not cute at all. No offense meant.

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  2. I think the co-dependancy as harmed both brothers in many ways. I see the Ezekiel possession as something different to what has happened before and in the way it could effect the brothers . This is somebodys body which is in essence their personal sanctum so I dont know how it will play out , this episode has not exactly given me the idea it will be fair . But we shall see?

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  3. The part about Sam doing what’s best for him despite it
    hurting Dean is in support of Sam not in disapproval of him. In 9.01, Sam
    wanted to die, to end the cycle of tragedy and suffering caused by unhealthy
    codependent relationship as you said, (nice analysis by the way,
    personally I couldn’t come up with a reason why he would want to end his life
    but this makes sense,) but he stayed because of Dean. Had he chosen death over
    not hurting Dean he would have followed Dean’s advice in this episode in doing
    what he thought was best for him. So in that sense Timmy is Sam and the ghost is
    Dean, and Timmy telling the ghost to leave him and that he’d be all right is
    Sam telling Dean not to do all sorts of crazy things (like let an angel take
    over his brother’s body without his knowledge or consent.) I actually like the
    idea of Sam taking this stand and gently asking Dean to let go of his insane
    dependency on him.

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  4. If Ezekiel’s possession isn’t shoved under the carpet– like Naomi’s
    brainwashing of Cas was last season – it has great potential to be an eye
    opener for both brothers and the trigger for an evolution in one of the show’s core
    concepts. Sam and Dean have survived long by depending on one another, but in
    my opinion, the whole Ezekiel misadventure is the point where it has gone too
    far. It’s time for both Sam and Dean to stop and think about what constitutes
    as brotherly love and having each other’s back and what files under unhealthy
    attachment that has the potential to hurt both sides and possibly more.

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  5. Oh. I'm really sorry about a misunderstanding here, I guess I was a little too defensive.

    I don't think Sam chose to stay just because he didn't want to hurt Dean. I think it's mostly because he feels he owes Dean, owes him his own life for all the times he thinks he let Dean down. Looking at Dean, we see a very miserable human being with extremely low self-esteem. But looking at Sam -- oh. Looking at Sam, we see it all, too, just so much worse. His self-worth is actually tied to owing it to Dean, to making up for every mistake he's ever made in his entire lifetime, starting from his birth. That is why when Dean pleads: "There ain't no me if there ain't no you", Sam's miraculous progress of accepting his accomplishments, even accepting death as his very own legacy is simply undone by the pure adjuration in Dean's eyes. "Please, Sammy," they say, and then it's painfully obvious that, really, Sam didn't have a choice in the first place.

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  6. No worries, perhaps my wording wasn't all that clear. I try to keep these reviews short and some times putting everything in one sentence creates confusion about its meaning.

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  7. I've pretty much been ok with the co dependency in the past because I dont think it was ever really that bad but this episode was like a sledge hammer to the face for me it was blatant emotional manipulation.


    Dean has been shown to give up everything for Sam so Sam must give up everything for Dean or look like a bad brother. It also told me the writers think what Dean did with the whole Zeke thing is perfectly ok and Sam will have to be ok with it or seem ungrateful, his right to angry at anything has been taken away, his right to have a life outside of Dean has been taken away, his right to be happy has been taken away...unless its on Dean's terms and Dean is ok with it.


    This episode was Dean's 'get out of jail free card', he can do whatever he wants to whomever he wants as long as he uses his love for that person as a reason for doing it.

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  8. your wording in the review didnt seem like this is what you meant at all btw

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  9. This is why I am uncomfortable with this episode. Placed later in the season it might of not felt so wrong, but it has given Dean a cushion going into the Ezekiel situation .

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  10. The reason for the old woman's speech was to throw us off - the guys thought if they burned the farmer's bones, the haunting would stop.

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  11. I gotta agree that this episode really bashed John Winchester, I hopefully think that the 'let him rot in jail' was from the cop because Dean gave him a black eye - not that John didn't say, have Dean stay at this home for awhile. The discussion I saw most in fandom was, was Sam told Dean was lost on a hunt for two months, and didn't he worry about him, (because Sam looks so happy in his one scene) - but I think that's making a mountain out of a molehill, Sam was taken to Bobby's, he thought that John was out looking for Dean, and then John comes back to say, Dean's fine, now let's go get him. But John, like Castiel, has been written around and around to serve the plot, he's never been consistent.

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  12. I wanted to mention the issue with Dean and how he viewed happiness as living with his family as opposed to away from them. I thought in Dark Side of the Moon it was heavily implied that Dean equated being happy with being with his brother and mom. However some pointed out that those memories were handpicked by Zachariah to place doubt in Dean's mind about Sam since all of Sam's memories were picked from times he was away from his family. So that episode is not a good reference because, even if Dean had a blast at Sonny's, Zack would never pick that memory because it would undermine Dean's accusation of Sam, which was the whole point of Zack's little show.


    The other thing I also wanted to nitpick was Sam's faint presence in the episode. But again, it was pointed out to me that Sam had two flashback episodes (After School Special and The Girl Next Door) dedicated to telling his childhood story so it was fair that an episode about Dean should spend most of its time telling Dean's story.


    The 'no concern' issue bothered me too. And that's what I mean by not liking Adam's writing. He spent too much time creating a red hearing subplot to fool us into thinking the killer was another ghost, time he could've spent getting into the mindset of young Dean, how he was feeling away from Sam, how it clashed with his supposed happiness with Sonny. But no, we had to listen to the old woman tell a pointless tale instead.

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  13. Dean flashback episodes are not the problem. The timing of it is questionable but not Dean having flashbacks. And yes we did get Sam flashbacks wonderfully played by Colin Ford . Which made the young Sam in this more ludicrous. and to be fair those flashbacks didnt show Sam sacrificing something for Dean but rather why he was feeling the way he was about hunting in ASS and his relationship with Amy in TGND.


    The problem with this is if I take Dean and normal on face value it then leads to problems in established canon and how he treated Sam for wanting the same.

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  14. The problem with this is if I take Dean and normal on face value with this episode it then leads to problems in established canon and how he treated Sam for wanting the same.

    I assume you are referring to DSotM. Yes, I had the same problem. That was why at the end of this episode it didn't even register for me that Dean wanted to stay. Because we were told in previous seasons in so many ways that Dean didn't considered leaving his family happiness.

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  15. I hear what you're saying about DSOTM, but some have used that episode as "proof" that Sam doesn't care about his family or that Sam doesn't love Dean as much as Dean loves him. Some have acted like the lousy three memories we saw from Sam make up the total of Sam's happy memories! That doesn't even make sense.
    I have no problem w/Dean having happy memories at Sonny's. That's normal and fine. My problem is this episode greatly impacts what we've seen before on a larger scale.
    DSOTM was manipulative crap. I have never believed that Dean ONLY had happy memories with his family. That's just silly. I also never believed Sam didn't have ANY happy memories WITH his family. That's equally silly to me. My gripe w/this change in Dean's character is it makes all his anger about Sam wanting normal very hypocritical. You wanted (want) it to too, Dean. Don't get mad at Sam for going for something you were too weak to do yourself. That's the only way I can reconcile what I was told in this episode w/what I've seen before.
    I thought ASS said a lot about both Dean and Sam. I liked BK's Dean. I agree that TGND was completely about Sam. Honestly, this episode didn't need a "Sam" in it at all. I would have preferred they cut the young Sam scene we did see as it was embarrassing, uncharacteristic, and just plain bad! Are we really supposed to believe that a 12-year old Sam doesn't remember picking up Dean from this boys' home?!?!?

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  16. But it goes beyond DSOTM. What about Season 1? Why get on Sam for going to college when Dean wanted normal too? Why get upset when Sam says he will return to college after killing the YED if Dean wants normal too? Every single time Sam mentions wanting normal, Dean rags on him. How does that not make him a hypocrite when he wants the exact same thing?

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  17. I have a problem with the concept of this column. Why is it a gripe? Why is Supernatural the only show having this? I find it offensive. I won't be back on this column at all

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  18. "he can do whatever he wants to whomever he wants as long as he uses his love for that person as a reason for doing it."


    Hit the nail on the head. Reminds me of the last two Walking Dead episodes, trying to justify what the Governor's gonna do at the prison in the midseason finale. What, he can't just be an asshole who wants some revenge on the people he views as wronging him? Gotta make an effing production out of it. Tsk.

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  19. Back In Black Tricksteress 9526 November 2013 at 11:53

    Agree with your points. And why is there no actual praise forum rather than a snippet of goodness? and why now of all years to be a gripe?. This can be judgemental I'm not saying I ain't but I tend to focus on the show I love not nitpick at every episode which I assume this gripe is longlasting. I will stick around this shouldn't just apply to the very outspoken side of the fandom if you know what I mean. At the end of the day supernatural is still rockin' :)

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  20. Back In Black Tricksteress 9526 November 2013 at 12:07

    Topic 1- I see more of a technique to let that ghost go so Dean played it pyschologically that worked. Does this refer to him? not quite the phrase it would be. However there is slight resembelence but it really dosen't apply.
    Topic 2- Ultimately the brothers' got a close bond that's what kept things together.
    Topic 3- The way things were and I'm not getting into this one. At least John protected the boys.
    Personal Gripe- none really.
    Praise- We got to see what it was like back in the younger years, it was a sweet episode.

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  21. bangingpatchouli9 December 2013 at 19:08

    I feel like I should mention here that Dean did dream of having a normal life with Lisa in Dream a Little Dream. It was suggested then that it was a dream that he'd had repeatedly although he denied it. Sam saw it, and that's the reason Sam made Dean promise to go to Lisa after he jumped into the pit.



    I agree though that it makes Dean look hypocritical for giving Sam such a hard time for trying to have a normal life. I'm not sure that is so far out of character for Dean. He chose Sam, and he thought that Sam should choose him.


    There were a number of problems with this ep and having a 16-year-old Dean who'd never been kissed was one of them. Glass should have left Dean's age at 14. It would have made more sense for the character and for how Sammy appeared. The one saving grace there was the overly large flannel he was wearing. I'm thinking Sammy had on his big brother's shirt.

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  22. Nice review. My only comment is that I believe the boys' codependency hurts not one, but both. And I hope this Ezekiel situation will be what motivates both guys to build a healthier relationship.

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